Love or career

Ok so the almighty question LOVE OR CAREER!!!

So a lot of us come across this throughout our lives and it is a very personal decision.

So I personally have had those thoughts lately where I always wanted a career in a certain area and it hasn't happened where i'm living, so the decision is if I can obtain this career in another town am I prepared to just pack up and leave without the love of my life???? This so called love of my life has also made his thoughts quite clear on moving at this point in time, so I know that I will more than likely be moving by myself if it was to happen. But it is something that has been nagging and nagging at me and well I have no desire to have kids or anything so why not pursue the career aspect of my life??? So I ask myself yes why not, but honestly i'm also afraid of the change, but I also know it could be great!!

Love or career both have appealing aspects and how happy can you be in your relationship if you aren't happy in other areas of your life?

Or the other question is "am I not happy with the way the relationship is heading" and I am finding excuses to leave? To be honest the relationship hasn't gone anywhere in like 5 years and here I am still wasting my time and I should know better!

Whilst love is a beautiful thing and all of that crap it doesn't seem t0 really fulfil me as a person and I know I need other accomplishments in my life.

And yes you may ask if he truly loved me he would move too blah blah blah. But the truth is he is one of those males that says "you do what makes you happy" and has no desire to follow me for my dream.

So I guess I will probably sit around and stew about it for god knows how long but I will definitely keep you updated!!! and of course your thoughts are also welcome!

Signing out...........